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The Learning Curve

I recently finished a course offered at my church about marriage. This class is open to everyone but required for those who would like to marry inside of the church by one of the pastors. What is a single gal, … Continue reading

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October 4th, 2011.2015.

On this day four years ago, I was sharing a dorm room that was shaped like the slice of a pizza. I was in a dark time of my life. I was living away from home, and I was terrified. … Continue reading

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Unstoppable

I am not dainty. And I don’t want to be. I am not the girl you save. I am not the damsel in distress. I am not weak nor in need of a hero (outside of Jesus). I used to … Continue reading

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Perfection is Overrated

Sometimes when we make a mistake we get caught up thinking about the past. We spend so much time dwelling on what we did; we neglect the possibility of moving forward. We find it daunting to try to pick up … Continue reading

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The Truth in Waiting

There is this myth that a person has to care for every need/want of their significant other, and I have personally witnessed how this can destroy someone’s entire belief system. This is especially true for women. I know so many … Continue reading

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Evidence of Things Unseen

There are so many ordinary things in life. There are so many times we are persuaded to settle for something “more realistic.” I sometimes give into the temptation to settle, but there is one area in my life I refuse to … Continue reading

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Dating and Fabulous, Question Mark.

I am tired. As you can tell from my last post, dating has not been a fun experience for me. I have had a few contenders, but it never seems to go anywhere. It is like we do this tango … Continue reading

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Desires For the Unexpected

You are so predictable. Let’s try something new. You like me, right? And…I like you back. How about we both show our interest and let things progress how they may, eh? Yep, that sounds so much more productive than what … Continue reading

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We Text. We Flirt. He Sends Mixed Signals.

In July, I made a conscious decision to get back on the dating scene. In September, I’m ready to get back on the “single and keeping it that way” scene. I’m not a very patient woman, so you might be … Continue reading

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Wise Counsel or Foolish Judgement

I was once asked, “When your friend gets into a relationship, what role do you play in things?” I wasn’t sure how to answer this at first, because I just thought it was obvious that you don’t play a role … Continue reading

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