Tag Archives: religion

Challenge: Rise or Fall

“Fall in love.” Fall (verb): move downward, typically rapidly and freely without control, from a higher to a lower level. Fall (noun):an act of falling or collapsing; a sudden uncontrollable descent. Hm…why is it so appealing to fall in love again? … Continue reading

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The Learning Curve

I recently finished a course offered at my church about marriage. This class is open to everyone but required for those who would like to marry inside of the church by one of the pastors. What is a single gal, … Continue reading

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Just Skin Deep?

He called me beautiful. He called me beautiful like it was my name. He called me beautiful like it was my name, but he did not know me. Excuse me sir, I sincerely appreciate the compliment, but I am curious … Continue reading

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To Be Woman and Black

As a woman in this country I must express my sorrow.  Mike Brown. Eric Garner. Trayvon Martin. Freddie Gray. All these men I have marched for. I have held up my hands, I have shouted for their freedom in the … Continue reading

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Dating and Fabulous, Question Mark.

I am tired. As you can tell from my last post, dating has not been a fun experience for me. I have had a few contenders, but it never seems to go anywhere. It is like we do this tango … Continue reading

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The Luxury of Not Knowing

What if we could all get a gimpse into the future? I wonder what would happen if we could see a preview of who we are meant to be with. Would we still have an interest in our current crushes? … Continue reading

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Undefined

Throughout my entire life people have tried to place me in a box and label me based on very small pieces of my life. It is actually quite frustrating. A lot of people will see me in one setting and … Continue reading

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We Text. We Flirt. He Sends Mixed Signals.

In July, I made a conscious decision to get back on the dating scene. In September, I’m ready to get back on the “single and keeping it that way” scene. I’m not a very patient woman, so you might be … Continue reading

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It’s Not About What You Lose

Love is…restrictive? It has been brought to my attention that I must grow in my view of love. For a long time, I thought of love in the negative. Don’t get me wrong, I know love is a beautiful thing. I … Continue reading

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Single and Fabulous, Exclamation Point.

It’s been three years. …well 2 years and 11 months. 2 years and 11 months since I have been single. Approximately 1065 days since I have been…in a dysfunctional relationship. Oh, you thought I was sad? (chuckle) I have been … Continue reading

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