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The Truth in Waiting

There is this myth that a person has to care for every need/want of their significant other, and I have personally witnessed how this can destroy someone’s entire belief system. This is especially true for women. I know so many … Continue reading

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Desires For the Unexpected

You are so predictable. Let’s try something new. You like me, right? And…I like you back. How about we both show our interest and let things progress how they may, eh? Yep, that sounds so much more productive than what … Continue reading

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The Luxury of Not Knowing

What if we could all get a gimpse into the future? I wonder what would happen if we could see a preview of who we are meant to be with. Would we still have an interest in our current crushes? … Continue reading

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We Text. We Flirt. He Sends Mixed Signals.

In July, I made a conscious decision to get back on the dating scene. In September, I’m ready to get back on the “single and keeping it that way” scene. I’m not a very patient woman, so you might be … Continue reading

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Procrastination #TheAbstinenceStruggle

Here goes the difficult part of being abstinent in terms of dating: BOUNDARIES. I must set them in order to be successful in my abstinence journey….I just haven’t gotten around to it yet…. Let me explain. I already have a … Continue reading

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A Black Hole Called The Friend Zone

The friend zone is where great potential relationships go to die. Yes people. It has happened! I. Have. Been. Friend Zoned!  *DUN* *DUN* *DUN* I have entered a very dangerous, dark place, and I have no idea how to escape. I … Continue reading

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……And We Wait. (#TheAbstinenceStruggle)

….waiting….. From a religious standpoint, one of the hardest parts about abstinence is the constant command from God to wait.                                         … Continue reading

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#TheAbstinenceStruggle

This is the beginning of a series I would like to call: #TheAbstinenceStruggle I want to start an open discussion about the struggles of being abstinent. Some struggles are awkward, some are funny, and some are just disturbing, but they … Continue reading

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