Tag Archives: women

Just Skin Deep?

He called me beautiful. He called me beautiful like it was my name. He called me beautiful like it was my name, but he did not know me. Excuse me sir, I sincerely appreciate the compliment, but I am curious … Continue reading

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Unstoppable

I am not dainty. And I don’t want to be. I am not the girl you save. I am not the damsel in distress. I am not weak nor in need of a hero (outside of Jesus). I used to … Continue reading

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To Be Woman and Black

As a woman in this country I must express my sorrow.  Mike Brown. Eric Garner. Trayvon Martin. Freddie Gray. All these men I have marched for. I have held up my hands, I have shouted for their freedom in the … Continue reading

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The Truth in Waiting

There is this myth that a person has to care for every need/want of their significant other, and I have personally witnessed how this can destroy someone’s entire belief system. This is especially true for women. I know so many … Continue reading

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Dating and Fabulous, Question Mark.

I am tired. As you can tell from my last post, dating has not been a fun experience for me. I have had a few contenders, but it never seems to go anywhere. It is like we do this tango … Continue reading

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Desires For the Unexpected

You are so predictable. Let’s try something new. You like me, right? And…I like you back. How about we both show our interest and let things progress how they may, eh? Yep, that sounds so much more productive than what … Continue reading

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The Luxury of Not Knowing

What if we could all get a gimpse into the future? I wonder what would happen if we could see a preview of who we are meant to be with. Would we still have an interest in our current crushes? … Continue reading

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Undefined

Throughout my entire life people have tried to place me in a box and label me based on very small pieces of my life. It is actually quite frustrating. A lot of people will see me in one setting and … Continue reading

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We Text. We Flirt. He Sends Mixed Signals.

In July, I made a conscious decision to get back on the dating scene. In September, I’m ready to get back on the “single and keeping it that way” scene. I’m not a very patient woman, so you might be … Continue reading

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Wise Counsel or Foolish Judgement

I was once asked, “When your friend gets into a relationship, what role do you play in things?” I wasn’t sure how to answer this at first, because I just thought it was obvious that you don’t play a role … Continue reading

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